Seek first to understand, then to be understood. For whatever reason, that is what came to mind when I asked myself, "how I should use this blog space?" I figure if you have found your way to my blog it is either by accident or it is because you know that I'm a gay and lesbian couples therapist and you hope I have something useful to say about the topic. In either case, I'm glad you're reading.
My goal, though, isn't to talk about me and what interests me - my hope is to find out about you. I'm going to test the waters here and offer up my space as a Gay and Lesbian Relationship Questions and Answers forum. You ask, I'll answer.
There is no one I know who is without questions about love and relationships. I think the day we cease to be curious about ourselves and about others is the day life stops having meaning. I hope you'll take my invitation to ask a question - any question - about love and relationships. I'm confident that whatever you ask is a question that someone else has too. After a decade of counseling couples I can assure you that whatever it is you are struggling with, you are not the only one.
Scroll below to the "comments" section and ask me your question. Use an alias if you wish - just ask.