It is important to remember the dynamics of a whip count. It is a tool of political gamesmanship and often a very bad idea when faced with a bill that has a slim majority or hard won support.

It is easy in the process of a whip count - that a legislator knows will be anonymous - to say NO. Legislators have no accountability and by saying NO they can help to kill the possibility that they will have to face a tough political choice.

There is a huge difference in being asked where you stand in a secret whip count and facing how you will vote when the moment comes and everyone is watching.

We saw this dynamic in San Diego with the Mayor. The Day Before he was still publicly pledging to veto the Marriage resolution if it came to his desk -- perhaps hoping his longstanding pledge of opposition would keep the matter from reaching him at all. But having reached him, the decision before him stopped being gamesmanship or being driven by fear of a backlash.

His decision became clear and human and courageous.

Whip counts are not etched in stone from on high. They need not be the deal breaker. We can and should push for a vote on the smartest language, the best bill, the one we know protects us all most effectively based on our actual and perceived sexual orientation and our gender identity and expression.

House Democrats - even those who have been dedicated leaders and allies - cannot be allowed to provide anonymous cover. We need to know who those Democrats are who are telling us back in the district that they are with us and then taking a dive in the secret whip count to scuttle the bill.

I bet anyone who has worked to pass one of these at the state or local level has seen this dynamic before. Standing together and stating clearly that it must be inclusive to protect us all is the only way past this tough moment.

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