Those of us eagerly waiting for the 
day when same-sex marriage is finally legalized across the land owe a debt of gratitude to Mildred Loving, whose 1967 case (Loving v. Virginia) resulted in a landmark Supreme Court decision that broke down a major social and legal barrier - interracial marriage.
Mildred Loving, a black woman whose challenge to Virginia's ban on interracial marriage led to a landmark Supreme Court ruling striking down such laws nationwide, has died, her daughter said Monday.
Peggy Fortune said Loving, 68, died Friday at her home in rural Milford. She did not disclose the cause of death.
...Richard Loving died in 1975 in a car accident that also injured his wife.
In a rare interview with The Associated Press last June, Loving said she wasn't trying to change history -- she was just a girl who once fell in love with a boy.
"It wasn't my doing," Loving said. "It was God's work."
You'll recall that I asked U.S. Senate candidate Kay Hagan about Loving v. Virginia and the conundrum it presents when considering marriage equality for lesbian and gay couples:
During a Feb. 25 forum at the University of North Carolina in Chapel Hill, you conveyed to attendees that the definition of marriage should be left up to state law. - How is that reconciled with 1967's Loving v. Virginia, a U.S. Supreme Court ruling that invalidated state bans on interracial marriages? Should that have been left a state matter?
I never did receive a response to this specific question.
As you may also recall, neither Dem gubernatorial candidate (Moore, Perdue) bothered to respond in their live blogs to questions about a potential marriage amendment in this state, the legality of which will eventually end up before SCOTUS because of a patchwork of unequal laws, similar to the anti-miscegenation laws prior to 1967's ruling.
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same sex marriages, like all other marriages between two consenting adults, MUST be recognized by all states and the federal government to fulfill the promise of equality. likewise, they need to be recognized internationally.
jerindc | May 5, 2008 5:30 PM
Thanks for sharing this, Pam.
Serena Freewomyn | May 5, 2008 5:55 PM
I am very glad to see Pam's tribute to Mildred Loving cross posted here. You may also want to check out :
http://fredericksburg.com/News/FLS/2008/052008/05052008/376825/index_html
http://www.dailykos.com/storyonly/2008/5/5/105748/8947/164/509355
http://ap.google.com/article/ALeqM5hB_lXH3EjHqSeJYEbQrt00rG4YmQD90FMA881
belovedcommunity | May 5, 2008 6:18 PM
MILDRED LOVING AND FONDRAY LOVING: TWO CASES WITH TWO LESSONS
"Loving" is a poignant last name to have when the state challenges someone right to a relationship. In the 1960's, Virginia refused to recognize a marriage between Richard and Mildred Loving, leading (finally...in 1967!) to a US Supreme Court case declaring unconstitutional state bans on interracial marriage. Mildred Loving died on Friday; her husband predeceased her by many years. The news today included many tributes to her and the historic case that bears her name.
The movement for marriage for same-sex couples has invoked the Lovings in the quest for marriage equality. And, frankly, opponents of same-sex marriage sound lame when they stretch to differentiate one type of vilified relationship from the other. Mildred Loving herself issued a statement of support for same-sex marriage last year. BUT, it's a good time to keep in mind another Loving ---Fondray Loving and his partner, Olivia Shelltrack, whose legal problems captured headlines two years ago. The couple had lived together for 13 years and had two children plus a third who was Olivia's from a prior relationship. This family constellation fell outside the zoning laws of Black Jack, Missouri; after the couple bought a home there, the city denied them an occupancy permit. The city relented only after the ACLU got involved.
While Mildred Loving's case was about being able to marry the person you love, Fondray Loving's case was about not being required to. Both principles are important.
(You can read this post with hyperlinks at
www.beyondstraightandgaymarriage.blogspot.com)
Nancy Polikoff | May 5, 2008 11:59 PM
Wow, no one has, as yet, mentioned Thomas Jefferson and Sally Hemmings. Both native Virginians who certainly loved one another. When I visted Jefferson's Monticello years ago our guide made a point both of avoiding any discussion of Sally Hemmings while she concentrated on the boyhood friend of Thomas Jefferson, who died before the revolution, and who Thomas Jefferson chose to bury in the family plot. I would like to think that Thomas Jefferson also knew "that love that dared not speak it's name." True, he did have six children with his caucasian wife, but as we all know that proves nothing.
Robert Ganshorn | May 6, 2008 8:11 AM
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