How do you go about showing someone you are interested in getting to know them? I did a little research on this topic and learned that according to the book, Are You Normal About Sex, Love and Relationships, there are three common ways people do this (and I'm assuming they are talking about heterosexuals).
Do gays and lesbians use the same strategies? I'm curious to hear what you do.
Examples after the jump.
1. 51% of people use flattery. You can never go wrong by complementing her. Comment on her hair, her outfit, her smile. It also helps to laugh at her jokes, maintain eye contact and to smile a lot when you look at her.
2. 25% use touch. This does not mean that you slip your hand on her thigh as you're sitting next to her.
3. 23% use a wingman/woman. Send word to her via a friend or pal. This strategy takes us back to grade school. It worked then, and it still works now!
What do you do? Does it work?