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Always Faithful: Please be faithful to me

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Tags: Don't Ask Don't Tell, gays in the military, open letter, President Obama, Servicemembers Legal Defense Network, SLDN

Editors' Note: "Stories from the Frontlines: Letters to President Barack Obama" is a new media campaign launched to underscore the urgent need for congressional action and presidential leadership at this critical point in the fight to repeal "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" (DADT). Every weekday morning as we approach the markup of the Defense Authorization bill in the Senate and House Armed Services Committees, SLDN and a coalition of voices supporting repeal will share an open letter to the President from a person impacted by this discriminatory law. We are urging the President to include repeal in the Administration's defense budget recommendations, but also to voice his support as we work to muster the 15 critical votes needed on the Senate Armed Services Committee to include repeal. The Defense Authorization bill represents the best legislative vehicle to bring repeal to the president's desk. It also was the same vehicle used to pass DADT in 1993. By working together, we can help build momentum to get the votes! We ask that you forward and post these personal stories.

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Today's open letter to President Obama is from LCpl. Danny Hernandez. It's after the jump.

April 28, 2010

Danny Hernandez.jpgPresident Barack H. Obama
The White House
1600 Pennsylvania Avenue Northwest
Washington, DC 20500

Dear Mr. President,

I was humbled to have earned the title of U.S. Marine just two years ago - my goal since I was 14 years old. But just nine weeks ago, I was informed of my discharge under the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" law.

Mr. President, if I could be serving my country right now - I would be. Instead, I was fired while you were my Commander and Chief.

The stories we hear of discharged service members are becoming far too common and are based around a primitive law that we should have eliminated years ago. As this injustice continues to hurt our country, we are in desperate need of your support and leadership as we work to repeal "Don't Ask, Don't Tell."

After I finished my training, I was a 20-year-old reservist. I returned to school to continue working on my undergraduate degree with hopes of becoming an officer. I wish I could tell you about my distinguished service, about stories from the war overseas, or about how being a Marine has changed my perspective on life, but I can't.

My discharge came from the fear that my sexual orientation was going to be revealed by a third party; a group of unknown Marines who threatened to use my sexuality as a way to retaliate after a dispute in a bar. I had spoken with two fellow Marines from my unit; both of whom I trusted. They calmed me, told me that it wasn't a big deal, and reassured me that everything was going to be fine.

I returned to drill only to find out that the two Marines - the Marines I confided in -- had mentioned it and word had reached my 1st Sergeant and Commanding Officer. They told the two Marines to submit written statements detailing everything I had told them. When I walked in to my 1st Sergeant's office the first question out of his mouth was, "Are you gay?"

I answered honestly. The investigation was now underway.

The 1st Sergeant proceeded to tell me that there was no way he could protect my privacy in the matter, citing the "grapevine," and having no control over what people within the unit said or did. I was told by my CO to hang tight and wait to hear from the Battalion Commander.

Ultimately I was discharged, a fate I found out only through my persistent calls and emails. My dreams of being an officer had been shattered and it felt as if the world was tumbling down on me and all I could do was step aside.

Upon earning the title of Marine, I took an oath and vowed to "defend the Constitution of the United States against all enemies, foreign and domestic." This enemy is a domestic one, and with your direction as Commander and Chief, this is a war in which we can be victorious.

"Semper Fidelis" is the Marine Corps motto meaning "Always Faithful." Not only am I willing and anxious to go overseas, but I am prepared to pay the ultimate sacrifice in order to protect our freedoms.

I have remained faithful to my country; please be faithful to me.

Very Respectfully,

LCpl. Danny Hernandez,
USMC (Separated)


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Thank you so much, LCpl Hernandez, for fighting for our basic freedoms and your freedom to serve.

Has anyone questioned if those who served but were discharged under don't ask don't tell will be able to re enlist if the law is changed? I notice the fight for repeal focuses on those that have been discharged for don't ask don't tell why not include Vets that weren't but are still denied their full rights as US citizens. Or vets who served and would be willing to re enlist but are now open about their sexuality. This would increase the arguement by allowing America to see the full effect of what DADT is costing them.

Good question, I would support a repeal of the discharge and full back pay for each soldier who is affected it they wished to return to duty. A call to our 4th district Congressman has expressed interest in this issue. Peter DeFazio (D-OR) states that this would have to be looked into should the DADT be repealed as an adjustment to the bill. Even if the president doesn't include the repeal in his request there is ample opportunity by the house leadership to add line items to the bill as it makes its way to the full house for consideration and a vote. Adding line items and House Resolutions added to a must pass bill will probably be the only way that DADT gets passed and it must be done before November when the Tea Party will probably take control of Congress.

It's a shame that your probably right that the Tea party will make gains in the next election.Personally I'd rather see someone more radical like a Benjamin Franklin type.Just imagine our President out on the front lawn of the Whitehouse on a warm spring morning reading his paper enjoying his coffee stark naked. The world would be a better place for it.