My boyfriend and I are not in agreement on babies. I want them, he doesn't. We've apparently been able to find a sort of middle ground arrangement that would work for both of us--only trouble is it will involve a lesbian couple who think I'm adorable and genetically sufficient, while wanting to raise a child a bit more than the two of us.
Mikey has indicated that if I was to donate my... genetic material to a lesbian couple looking to raise a child, while still maintaining a presence in the child's life, he'd be fine if we took weekends. How do you arrange such a thing though? I know there are websites for arranging a surrogacy, but is there a Craigslist section for local gays or lesbians who want kids but not 100% of the time?
This very situation has just happened to fallen into a friend's lap: he donates, the girls raise the baby, he gets weekends. How common is it? Will my dream of being a dad be plausible, or will I have to trade in my man for a more domestic model? Is eHarmony going to set up Lookin4LesbianMoms4MyPartTimeBaby.com?