With Thanksgiving right around the corner, the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation is encouraging LGBT people to talk freely and openly about their relationships and LGBT equality overall. Hilariously, they're calling the campaign "I'm Letting Aunt Betty Feel Awkward This Thanksgiving."
GLAAD explains the purpose of the campaign:
We've all had those Thanksgiving dinners where Aunt Betty decides this is the perfect time to discuss a year's worth of ailments and medical treatments. Well, you know what? If she can talk about her polyp, you can talk about your partner.
The fact is, while you're scarfing down mashed potatoes and staying silent while everyone else at the table is freely speaking their minds, you're missing a golden opportunity to make real, honest progress by talking about your life, and the things you care about. It's okay if Aunt Betty feels a little awkward at first, it's important for her to know that someone she loves cares deeply about LGBT equality. And the more we all talk about what's important to us, the less awkward those conversations will become.
In many cases, breaking the ice is the most difficult part of engaging in discussion about LGBT equality with family members, but once that's over with, conversations often take a turn for the better, eliciting more questions and dialogue about the LGBT movement.
GLAAD has more information about family members being more supportive of LGBT people after a conversation with one of their gay, lesbian, bi or trans loved ones:
In 2008, we did a study of people who said their opinions on LGBT issues were more favorable than they were five years prior. Of those who were now more supportive of LGBT equality, four out of five cited personally knowing someone who was lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender as a primary reason.
The more comfortable you are talking about your life, the more comfortable other people will be standing up for LGBT issues with their friends and co-workers. Maybe Aunt Betty will speak up and use you as an example the next time someone at her office speaks out against marriage equality.
I only came out to my extended family - aunts, uncles, grandparents - in August, so this Thanksgiving will be one of the first times I'll feel even remotely comfortable talking about my boyfriend, my gay friends at school, and what I write about for Bilerico. But I'm excited to break that ice, risk the awkwardness, and talk about things that are important to me - just how everyone else in my family can talk about what is important to them.
In anticipation of GLAAD's campaign, does anyone have any awkward LGBT-related Thanksgiving stories to share?