"If you were to put all gay men together in a big warehouse and place the 'bottoms' on the left and the 'tops' on the right, you'd start seeing negative consequences of the anal sex play out in real life for the bottoms such as: disrespect for their general health, failure at work, failure in love and relationships. I am not saying that every gay man should stop anal intercourse today. What I recommend is that gay men re-think the 'Gay-Lifestyle' strategy and stop for one second to question the validity of all that is gay."
-- Miami "gay matchmaker" Paul Angelo arguing that "receptive anal sex decreases self esteem by forcing the person to assume a submissive position during an act of pleasure." Personally, I've met a few bottoms in my lifetime that were anything but "submissive."