"Dan has been going out with Harry to gay bars where he gets "hit on" often. I can tell he likes the attention. I should also mention that Dan seems to be considerably less interested in sex lately. His going to gay bars every night is beginning to worry me. If I say anything to him about it, he guilt-trips me about my travel. Is it normal for a straight man to seek out the company of gay men?"
-- From a letter to the Dear Abby advice column this week. The columnist replies that, no, it's normal, but asks if she would be any happier if her husband was going to straight bars and getting hit on by women?