John M. Becker

Theater Director Responds Perfectly to Anti-Gay Patron

Filed By John M. Becker | April 06, 2014 1:00 PM | comments

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Tags: Deathtrap, hysteria, pearl-clutching, plays, prudishness, Salt Lake City

deathtrap-utah.jpgIt was supposed to be a routine performance of Deathtrap, a popular 1978 play by Ira Levin that holds the record for the longest-running comedy thriller on Broadway. The production, mounted by the Pioneer Theatre Company in Salt Lake City, Utah, has garnered favorable reviews and a strongly positive response from the community. But one patron was so upset that she grabbed her teenage son, left at intermission, and demanded a refund for the rest of the season.

Why was she so furious? Because the show contained a brief (3-4 seconds) same-sex kiss.

In an outraged, pearl-clutching letter to managing director Chris Lino, she wrote:

I am normally calm, mild-mannered, and don't get upset, but last night, at the close of the first act of Deathtrap, I was infuriated with the explicit, homosexual display on stage because I had brought my teenage son to see the seemingly innocuous play... I realize that, unfortunately, you feel you must appeal to an insignificant minority of patrons by offering "edgy" material. I regret that you feel that way...

It took all of my self-control as I fumed in my seat for the long minute before intermission. Why was brazen homosexual content not included in the advisory?

...When I inquired [at the ticket booth] as to why that content was left out of the advisory I was told that it would "ruin the plot." Ruin the plot?! You ruined my evening, ruined my trust in you, and you ruined the trust my son has in me to find worthwhile entertainment for him. I feel sick about tonight.

I am appalled that you could not have simply stated: homosexual content. I have NEVER been so disgusted and infuriated! I was livid. I know your ticket sales clerk and manager are not responsible, and they handled the situation well. I had read and reread the content advisory to make sure it would be suitable to have my teenage son attend. I anticipated that he would appreciate the suspense, intrigue, plot twists, and mystery. The decision on the theatre's part not to divulge repulsive content was irresponsible and negligent! You have that responsibility to your patrons.

Please refund my money for this last evening's performance... My real desire is that you could erase the images in my son's mind and in mine.

Lino's response, which the Pioneer Theatre Company posted to its Facebook page, is pitch perfect. It's after the jump.

Dear [REDACTED]--

I received your e-mail, and am sorry that you were offended by the kissing scene.

We did not include the scene in the content advisory for two reasons:

1. It is indeed a major plot revelation in a murder mystery that relies entirely on plot twists for suspense, revealing the motive for the murder that has just occurred; to include it would have revealed a plot point that would have spoiled the show for patrons.

2. I did not think it rose to the level of requiring an advisory. You describe the content as "edgy," and there are indeed times we do produce edgier material... but in this day and age I hardly think Deathtrap, a forty year old play, or a brief kiss by two men (there is no other sexual activity of any kind in the play) qualifies as edgy.

I have to ask, and I do so in all sincerity: In putting on Deathtrap, we are "play acting," and in this particular play we show two characters carrying out a cold-blooded murder, and then we show them kissing as the motivation for the murder. You object to the kissing, but not to the fact that they're murderers? You are comfortable with your son witnessing an enacted murder, but not a same sex kiss?

In both cases, it's just make-believe, but how is a play that depicts murder, whether it's a contemporary murder-mystery like Deathtrap or an immortal tragedy like Macbeth, morally acceptable while the depiction of a fairly innocuous, albeit same-sex kiss, is totally unacceptable? The script doesn't ask you to condone either the murder or the kiss; despite what you imply, we're not promoting a homosexual agenda in producing Deathtrap; if anything, since the two characters who kiss are the villains of the piece, the kiss becomes part of their villainy, and both characters get their comeuppance in the second act.

Based on your letter, I anticipate that I might receive several more on this subject. (I half expect to get other letters of complaint from other patrons who accuse the play of "gay bashing" by revealing the character's murderous impulses to be a function of their homosexuality -- I've learned in twenty-three years that there's nothing we can do that won't offend somebody). Even if that happens--even if I get twenty letters -- the vast majority of our patrons will enjoy the show and regard the kissing "reveal" as a shocking but satisfying plot twist. In that circumstance... I would ask you to consider who we're writing the advisories for: the 80-90% of our patrons who aren't offended by the element in question, or the 10-20% who are?

In any event, I don't expect to persuade you to my point of view, even if I don't understand yours. Clearly, for you, the depiction of a same sex kiss is offensive -- you use the word "repulsive" -- and you are right that we did not warn you that that would be in the play.

On that basis, I will be glad to refund you the price of your tickets to Deathtrap and will instruct my Patron Services Manager to process a refund...

It sounds as if you have been unhappy with many of our productions, since you write that you've wasted many tickets over the past few seasons by not attending plays that you describe as offensive and vulgar, and it sounds as though you wish to discontinue your association with the theatre.

On your instructions, I will advise our marketing and box office staffs to place a "Do Not Contact" note on your records, and will release your season tickets for sale for next season. I always hate to lose a patron, but it is, I've found, better to lose a patron than risk betraying her trust and offending her repeatedly, something we have apparently done in your case.

Sincerely,
Chris Lino

If you'd like to express support for the Pioneer Theatre Company, their Facebook page is here and the letter itself is posted here. If you're in the Salt Lake City area and would like to attend Deathtrap or one of their other productions, click here for their website. Deathtrap runs through Saturday.

A TV report from Salt Lake City's Fox-13 is below. Watch:


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