The Bilerico Project | Daily experiments in LGBTQ

who am i?

i am a sister, a lover, a friend, an advocate, a feminist/womanist, a spiritual person. i am pro-choice, pro-sex, pro-personal fucking autonomy b/c for FSM’s sake we aren’t hurting anyone.

i am bi. I am a supporter of lgbt rights. I am an ally to transpeople, to people of every color, to immigrants, to the disabled, to anyone being oppressed.

i am a believer in the great big concept of making this world better for those who are in it, and for making the planet better for those who are on it.

i believe that the patriarchy exists, and that we are all of us victims of it.

i believe that gender is a social construct no matter what sex organs or lack thereof you may have under your pants.

i believe the gamut of sexuality is as wide, diverse and beautiful as the people in the world.

i believe that what happens in my body and my bedroom b/t consenting adults is nobody’s business but my own.

i believe porn can be woman friendly. i believe sex workers should have rights b/c they are people too.

i believe that women should be free to make their own choices and that we have a responsibility to support them in those choices.

i believe that if i have to have perfect grammar and punctuation to get through to you then you are in the wrong fucking forest.

i believe i can make mistakes b/c professionals have editors.

i believe that fat people are people too and deserving of our love and respect.

i believe that putting limits on our choices b/c of the religious or moral codes of a few is hurtful and dangerous to our society.

i believe that it is OK to get emotional over something you believe in w/o losing the validity of your point.

i am a complex person filled w/ many emotions and thoughts and i refuse to be pigeon holed into any mold, box, social construct, gender norm or expectation or labeled.

I am so many things...