Living: January 2012
At Last: Christina Aguilera at Etta James Funeral
Filed by Bil Browning | January 31, 2012 6:30 PM |The world has known very few singers as spectacular as Etta James, but Christina Aguilera does her proud with this rendition of "At Last" at James' funeral.Read More
Take Your Partner's Temperature
Filed by Jeff Lutes | January 31, 2012 5:30 PM |Seal and Heidi Klum announced they are divorcing. The couple say they still love each other but have "grown apart." This is consistent with what research shows as the number one reason couples split up - a slow dissolution of the friendship between partners.Read More
Suggested Gay Wedding Invites: My New Business
Filed by Leslie Robinson | January 31, 2012 10:30 AM |With Washington on a path to legalize same-sex marriage, it's the right time here in the Evergreen State to get into the wedding invitation business. Imagine unsealing a hand-lettered envelope and withdrawing a regal invitation graced with one of these announcements: Read More
A Prayer for Bella Santorum
Filed by Karen Ocamb | January 30, 2012 4:30 PM |There are some instances when the clash of politics and points of view should be set aside - such as in a times of crisis when helping each other should be the spontaneous, good and right thing to do.Read More
Militarizing Our Sex Lives
Filed by Adam Polaski | January 30, 2012 3:00 PM |I was interested to see how much, if any, of the Adult Outlet video library incorporated a sexual fetishization of the military. The best estimated answer I gathered from an unscientific survey of the selections? "Lots."Read More
PA's 'Year of the Bible' Illustrates A Deeper Political Aim
Filed by E. Winter Tashlin | January 30, 2012 11:00 AM |The Pennsylvania state house recently passed a resolution declaring 2012 "the year of the Bible," and affirming the Christian bible as the "word of God." As a queer person of non-Christian faith, it is a concerning, if empty, gesture.Read More
A Trans Warrior's Return Home & Journey In Transition
Filed by Guest Blogger | January 30, 2012 10:00 AM |If a mom can accept and love her transgender daughter 47 years after bringing Jenn into this world, why can't the United States Military stand with Jenn now after 29 years of honorable and distinguished service to her country?Read More
Horseplay: Unique Vintage Photo
Filed by Gloria Brame, Ph.D. | January 29, 2012 10:00 AM |Another one of those "Gee, I'd love to know the backstory here." Read More
Research Study: Low IQ Correlates With Prejudice and Bigotry
Filed by Michael Hamar | January 28, 2012 6:00 PM |A new study finds that those with low intelligence gravitate towards conservatism and are prone to embrace prejudice of things they don't understand or that are different.Read More
Endorsement Fight at WeHo/Beverly Hills Democratic Club
Filed by Karen Ocamb | January 28, 2012 4:00 PM |Torie Osborn, an openly gay candidate, won another local Democratic club endorsement when she got more votes than her rivals. But the process getting to the final vote for endorsement infuriated the mayor, and he interrupted Osborn's acceptance speech. Read More
Arm-Wrestling Hunks: Vintage Muscle Gods
Filed by Gloria Brame, Ph.D. | January 27, 2012 4:30 PM |Not sure how you feel about this but OMG, it's everything with 3 giant cherries on top from my POV.Read More
Young Adult LGBT Books Can Make a Big Difference
Filed by E. Winter Tashlin | January 27, 2012 1:30 PM |As an out queer boy in the mid 1990's, I did not have many role for being an LGBT young adult. Being a voracious reader, I often found myself searching out subtext where the author likely never intended it.Read More
Report from Creating Change
Filed by Bil Browning | January 27, 2012 12:00 PM |If you'd like to follow along with the conference on Twitter, everyone is using the hashtag #cc12 and with thousands of LGBT activists here, you know the tweets are flying fast.Read More
Why Do Legislators Listen to Unindicted Criminal Co-Conspirators?
Filed by Michael Hamar | January 26, 2012 4:30 PM |I've asked before the question before: why does anyone listen to these foul, morally bankrupt clerical bureaucrats? The question takes on new importance now that the Archdiocese of Philadelphia has been named as an unindicted co-conspirator in the criminal case against Catholic priests.Read More
Men at the Beach: Vintage NSFW Photo
Filed by Gloria Brame, Ph.D. | January 26, 2012 3:00 PM |From the 1960s, this deliberately anonymous photo of two fine young men doing what comes naturally (when you're semi-naked and alone behind some bushes!). I'm thinking Fire Island, perhaps?Read More
Meth: A Documentary
Filed by Bil Browning | January 26, 2012 10:30 AM |This riveting documentary about gay men and meth addiction is a little over an hour long, but once you start it you'll sit through it all.Read More
Bi Leadership Up North: Health Pioneer Cheryl Dobinson
Filed by Amy Andre | January 25, 2012 3:00 PM |"Most research grouped bi people with gay men or lesbians, which meant that we didn't have a picture of whether or how our health as a community might differ from that of gay, lesbian and heterosexual people's health." -- Cheryl DobinsonRead More
One Hour Per Second
Filed by Bil Browning | January 25, 2012 2:00 PM |Google has put out a fascinating "infographic" (that's more of a video webpage) about the amount of video content uploaded to YouTube.Read More
Results: Shifting Sexuality During Gender Transition
Filed by Drew Cordes | January 25, 2012 12:30 PM |A little while ago I asked trans Bilerico readers to share their opinions and experiences in regard to shifting sexuality during gender transition. And share they did!Read More
Hate the Gays? Imagine the World Without Us
Filed by Kergan Edwards-Stout | January 24, 2012 2:00 PM |Any preventable loss of dignity and human life must be stopped. The question is, "How?"Read More
Thousands Demand Ohio Gym Stop Discriminating
Filed by Joe Mirabella | January 24, 2012 11:30 AM |More than 4,000 people have signed a popular petition on Change.org urging an Ohio gym to offer a family membership to a local gay couple, Shane and Coty May. Read More
Begging for Equality
Filed by Davina Kotulski | January 24, 2012 10:30 AM |Glenn Schmoll should not be in the unfortunate position of petitioning the Masons, where his deceased partner, Lowell Houser, was a brother, for financial assistance typically afforded other spouses of brothers.Read More
Trans Mafia: Savage Glitterbombed Again
Filed by Bil Browning | January 23, 2012 8:16 PM |Dan Savage was glitterbombed again by trans activists. If you think that Dan Savage is the worst enemy of the trans community, you're sadly mistaken.Read More
We All Just Stopped Talking About It
Filed by Guest Blogger | January 23, 2012 2:39 PM |A comment from a panel discussion was repeated more than once - "We all just stopped talking about it" - in reference to AIDS activism & the disease itself. I left that night fairly pissed off about it all, to be frank.Read More
Mayors Advocate for Same-Sex Marriage Nationwide
Filed by Karen Ocamb | January 23, 2012 12:00 PM |Last Friday, Freedom to Marry launched its latest campaign to create a groundswell to win marriage rights for same sex couples.Read More
Ru Paul's Makeup Motivations [Comment of the Week]
Filed by Bil Browning | January 22, 2012 8:30 PM |Over on Becky Juro's post, "You Don't Get to Tell Us When to Be Offended, Ru Paul," she added an addendum in the comments section that posits an interesting theory.Read More
Shifting Fortunes
Filed by Sara Whitman | January 22, 2012 4:00 PM |The divorce is moving along. It took a few months of tears shed lying in a fetal ball, to be certain. Certainty created enough energy to file papers, begin the process of tearing apart a life built over twenty years.Read More
Shining the Light of Justice on 'Bag-A-Fag' Stings
Filed by Norm Kent | January 22, 2012 2:00 PM |There is no defense for what law enforcement officers do to gay men in public parks. From shore to shore, from Seattle to South Florida, 'bag-a-fag' tactics are illegally employed by cops to ensnare and entrap otherwise innocent gay men.Read More
Former Nashville Pride President Arrested for Embezzlement
Filed by Bil Browning | January 22, 2012 12:00 PM |Nashville Pride president Jason Hunt and his partner, Cole Wakefield, fled to Mexico and opened a Puerto Vallarta nightclub after embezzling over $600,000 from Hunt's employer, but the fiesta has turned into a longterm jail cell siesta after Hunt was arrested in Arkansas.Read More
Black LGBT Orgs Marched in LA Martin Luther King Day Parade
Filed by Viktor Kerney | January 21, 2012 4:00 PM |This past Monday, LGBT people of color organizations marched in the Martin Luther King Day Parade in Los Angeles.Read More
Calling All Guppies & Luppies?
Filed by Davina Kotulski | January 21, 2012 2:00 PM |Last week I attended their Cocktails for a Cause fundraiser which included a presentation on the BOOM community. Heard of BOOM before? Nope, me neither.Read More
Handsome Dreamer [Posing Pouch Series 5]
Filed by Gloria Brame, Ph.D. | January 21, 2012 10:00 AM |I saved my favorite for last, this good-looking guy with his light curls of body hair intact. The natural look gets me every time.Read More
There Are No Gay Jews
Filed by Mark Segal | January 20, 2012 5:00 PM |Everywhere I travel, I'm in search of how our community is depicted. Unfortunately, I notice we are not always included. That is discrimination by censorship. Read More
Grindr Hacked in Australia
Filed by Bil Browning | January 20, 2012 11:00 AM |Over 100,000 users in Australia have had their personal information, uh, exposed thanks to a Sidney hacker who created a website that allowed anyone to login as another Grindr user and view their photos, send messages, and more.Read More
Straight Hunk [Posing Pouch Series 4]
Filed by Gloria Brame, Ph.D. | January 20, 2012 10:00 AM |I spot a little gold ring on his finger. Lucky wife!Read More
The Incident
Filed by Paige Schilt | January 19, 2012 7:00 PM |A few months back, I wrote that my son had never been bullied at his Texas public school. Perhaps it was inevitable, given that Waylon is in third grade now, but a week or two later there was an incident.Read More
Ohio Mayor: Investigate if Two Men Can Join Gym as Family
Filed by Bil Browning | January 19, 2012 6:00 PM |While I'd like to chalk this up to plain old ignorance, I wonder how much homophobia is playing into the equation.Read More
The Gay Travel Buzz: Is the World Your Oyster?
Filed by Leslie Robinson | January 19, 2012 11:00 AM |I used to be a travel writer, but these days I'm ignorant about international travel. I don't even know where gays with money - in this economy, all six of them - go abroad on vacation.Read More
Black Muscles [Posing Pouch Series 3]
Filed by Gloria Brame, Ph.D. | January 19, 2012 9:00 AM |This guy is so perfect, it's hard to believe he's real. But he is and he fills out his red posing pouch like a dream.Read More
We're Going Dark on Jan 18 to Protest SOPA
Filed by Bil Browning | January 17, 2012 7:15 PM |In solidarity with several other websites around the nation, Bilerico Project will be going dark for twenty four hours - from midnight Eastern Time on Tuesday to midnight Wednesday - to protest the Senate's proposed Stop Online Piracy Act and it's House cousin, the PROTECT IP Act. Read More
An Open Letter to Karen Santorum
Filed by Annette Gross | January 17, 2012 5:00 PM |I read that you are upset with the gays and feel that what they are doing to your husband is bullying. I can only imagine what it must be like for poor Rick knowing so many people don't like him for who he is. Read More
Arcus Foundation Gives $23 Million for Social Justice Leadership
Filed by Bil Browning | January 17, 2012 4:00 PM |Notable LGBT funder the Arcus Foundation has given Kalamazoo College $23 million to endow the "Arcus Center for Social Justice Leadership." Former Director of the Task Force's Policy Institute, Jamie Grant, has been tapped to lead the center's programming and day to day operations.Read More
Indiana Issues Nation's First LGBT Youth License Plate
Filed by Bil Browning | January 17, 2012 11:00 AM |Indiana has become the first state in the nation to issue a license plate designed specifically to raise awareness about LGBT issues. Read More
Hate Groups to Protest Southern Poverty Law Center
Filed by Bil Browning | January 17, 2012 10:00 AM |Looks like Porno Pete LaBarbera has finally found a cause he can get behind other than trying to get behind leather men at street festivals! Read More
Ethnic Hunk [Posing Pouch Series 2]
Filed by Gloria Brame, Ph.D. | January 17, 2012 9:00 AM |Second in a special five-part photo series this week, featuring handsome vintage muscle hunks in red posing pouches, ca. 1950s.Read More
Shorter Indiana Democratic Party Press Releases [Open Thread]
Filed by Bil Browning | January 16, 2012 6:00 PM |The Indiana Democratic Party obviously spent quite a bit of time working on their release for the day; a 26 word MLK quote written in a large font is surely enough, right? I mean, it's a quote and it's displayed in big type, people!!Read More
Beyond Shame: Embracing Sexual Freedom
Filed by E. Winter Tashlin | January 16, 2012 4:30 PM |Self acceptance and sexual freedom is not a switch that is either on or off. Simply by coming out as LGBT, we are not automatically free beings, unconstrained by childhood or cultural baggage, although many of us feel that we should be. Read More
HIV & LGBT Activist/Blogger Mike Tidmus Has Died
Filed by Karen Ocamb | January 16, 2012 1:30 PM |On Sunday this note was posted on Mike Tidmus' Facebook page: "My name is Lindsay Tidmus, Mike's brother. It is with a heavy heart that I inform his Facebook friends of Mike's passing. He left us this morning after a battle with cancer."Read More
Vintage Muscle Hunks [Posing Pouch Series 1]
Filed by Gloria Brame, Ph.D. | January 16, 2012 10:30 AM |All week this week, I've got a special "posing pouch series" for Projectors. I know I should be staring at all the muscles but I know you can forgive me for fixating on the pouch.Read More
How Fluid Is Your Sexual Orientation? [Comment of the Week]
Filed by Bil Browning | January 15, 2012 6:00 PM |Jonathon Edwards points out the fluidity of sexuality in general and brings bisexuality into Drew Cordes' conversation about her sexual orientation has become less rigid after her transition.Read More
Looking for the Math & Science in Everything: Failing to See the Arts
Filed by Yasmin Nair | January 15, 2012 2:30 PM |We've seen an overall reduction in our rights to hold public demonstrations, but yarn-bombing has not reclaimed any of that.Read More
What's In a (Different) Name?
Filed by E. Winter Tashlin | January 15, 2012 12:00 PM |I don't wear the same outfit to present at universities as I do at a pagan or BDSM events. This is not because I couldn't, but rather because it would distract people from what I have to say.Read More
Show Me the Beefcake: Fine 50s Hunk
Filed by Gloria Brame, Ph.D. | January 15, 2012 11:00 AM |I wonder how many people could build a very, ummm, errr, well, uh, "satisfying" fantasy around this perfectly gorgeous creature on his knees as he tidies up.Read More
Sweet Sauna: Laughing & Sweating ca. 1940s
Filed by Gloria Brame, Ph.D. | January 14, 2012 10:45 AM |A photo taken inside the merry chaos of a crowded Scandinavian sauna, where the camaraderie was as sweet as the lack of inhibitions. Just men, feeling naked and free together.Read More
Tone Deaf: Jean-Paul Gaultier's Gold Bar
Filed by Bil Browning | January 13, 2012 4:00 PM |This seems a little tone deaf as the world's economies institute austerity measures and several countries teeter on the verge of complete economic collapse. Jean-Paul Gaultier announced this week that he has designed a 1oz gold bar.Read More
Palm Springs Gay Man Accuses County Sheriff of Discrimination
Filed by Karen Ocamb | January 13, 2012 3:00 PM |Palm Springs had been considered by many to be the "gayest" city in the nation, but there appears to be an antigay sentiment wafting through Palm Springs, too, some of which is overt and some more a result of lazy ignorance.Read More
Avis: Reverse Sexual Orientation Discrimination?
Filed by Bil Browning | January 13, 2012 1:00 PM |An Arizona woman is taking Avis Rent A Car to court claiming that the company discriminated against her by not offering her the same discount they offer to a handful of LGBT organizations.Read More
Trevor Project Intern Takes His Own Life
Filed by Bil Browning | January 13, 2012 11:00 AM |Teenage Trevor Project intern, EricJames Borges, took his own life this week after years of bullying from schoolmates and his family. The young man was a budding filmmaker and had created an It Gets Better video just last month.Read More
Big Man: Vintage Bodybuilder
Filed by Gloria Brame, Ph.D. | January 13, 2012 10:00 AM |Guessing this is circa 1950s-1960s. His leg development is as interesting as his posing pouch. Mmmm. Beefcake!Read More
Mere Ghosts of Themselves: Bizarre Photo
Filed by Gloria Brame, Ph.D. | January 12, 2012 10:00 AM |Either something went terribly wrong with the exposure when the 1920s photographer attempted to capture this group of swank dandies, or it was a deliberate trick photograph (very popular in the day).Read More
Squalls & Sunsets: Have the Strength of a Penguin
Filed by Norm Kent | January 11, 2012 7:00 PM |The LGBT community has not only fought against legal and social discrimination for decades, we have endured alienation and disease; been bullied and belittled. Today, however, is our turn; time to rise against the tide and ride the wave to self-worth and social equality.Read More
Pope Assigns Us Awesome Task
Filed by Leslie Robinson | January 11, 2012 6:00 PM |On Monday, before an audience of diplomats posted to the Vatican, the pope said same-sex marriage was among several threats to the traditional family. Glad we're not the only one. That really would be more responsibility than we can handle.Read More
Advice to a Young Writer
Filed by Jessica Max Stein | January 11, 2012 5:00 PM |A former student recently emailed me to ask, "What should an aspiring writer do at this point with a Bachelor's in English Literature?" This is what I told her. Read More
Is the Twinkie Defense Dead?
Filed by Bil Browning | January 11, 2012 4:00 PM |Dan White must be rolling over in his grave... Hostess Bakery, maker of the popular Twinkie snack cake, has filed for bankruptcy.Read More
Hillary's Big AIDS Speech
Filed by Patricia Nell Warren | January 11, 2012 3:00 PM |Hillary Clinton's lauded program seeks to expand same-old approaches that - in real life, not in the AIDS-industry rhetoric where so many people are stuck - delivers only partial progress. And the cost of what she's proposing will be astronomical.Read More
Whatever Floats Your Boat
Filed by Gloria Brame, Ph.D. | January 11, 2012 9:00 AM |I found this amusing early 20th century cut-out, featuring two friends having a blast, probably at an early 20th century carnival photo booth. The memory was precious enough that someone framed it beautifully.Read More
Shifting Sexuality During Gender Transition: Your Thoughts?
Filed by Drew Cordes | January 10, 2012 7:00 PM |Obviously, gender and sexuality aren't synonymous, but the two certainly are linked. I've noticed in myself, and in many other trans people I talk to, that gender transition often is accompanied by a shift in sexuality.Read More
Activism in Gestures of Affirmation
Filed by Kyle Bella | January 10, 2012 6:00 PM |Kristen Wolfe published a story about two brothers she helped at a store recently. Her experience forced me to examine what activism is, and to suggest how it can occur in day-to-day moments of affirmation that form unexpected connections.Read More
MARS Canada Chooses Not to Affiliate With Transphobia
Filed by Mercedes Allen | January 10, 2012 4:00 PM |If you're a consumer like me who shops with her feet, it probably won't hurt to thank Uncle Ben's for taking a principled stand against transphobia. And if buying M&Ms just became a little more guilt-free, well, that's an added bonus.Read More
Lesbians Make History as Contestants for Miss California USA
Filed by Karen Ocamb | January 10, 2012 3:15 PM |What a long, long way from Religious Right Miss California runner-up Carrie Prejean! This year, the Miss California USA pageant featured two openly gay contestants seeking that coveted crown!Read More
HIV Positive Criminals: Have Sex, Go to Jail
Filed by Mark S. King | January 10, 2012 2:00 PM |This may be the defining HIV issue of our time, and it is a true test of our compassion and understanding of both HIV stigma and the law. Please read this closely.Read More
Salvation Army Mail Continues to Pour In [From the Inbox]
Filed by Bil Browning | January 10, 2012 10:15 AM |The e-mails continue to pour from the media coverage of my information campaign about the Salvation Army's anti-gay history. Instead of trying to respond to each missive directly, I've given up and decided to post the last batch here and quickly respond.Read More
Smoking Gets You Laid While Kids Watch
Filed by Bil Browning | January 10, 2012 9:00 AM |What message is being sent with this Israeli HIV/AIDS PSA? This one would never fly in the United States what with the smoking and children watching two guys have anal sex.Read More
Alan Cumming Marries Longtime Partner in NYC
Filed by Bil Browning | January 09, 2012 2:30 PM |Mazel tov! Congratulations to Alan Cumming and his longtime partner, Grant Shaffer. The happy couple were wed this weekend in New York City.Read More
Brunch Is So Bi: Activism Over Easy
Filed by Amy Andre | January 09, 2012 10:00 AM |Brunch is a very bi meal. It's not breakfast or lunch, but it combines some of the best elements of both - without making you choose a side! Pancakes? Omelet? At brunch, you can have both.Read More
Having a Meeting: A Salvation Army Update
Filed by Bil Browning | January 09, 2012 9:00 AM |A quick note: I have been invited to meet with leaders from the Salvation Army this week on Thursday afternoon. We'll be having an off-the-record conversation first and then they have agreed to do an on-camera interview for Bilerico Project.Read More
Date a Conservative: Could You Do It? [Comment of the Week]
Filed by Bil Browning | January 08, 2012 7:00 PM |After Michael Hamar posted that Republican Congressman Eric Cantor's wife is pro-gay and pro-choice, Annette Gross wondered how in the world they could be a couple. What about you? Could you do it?Read More
Cardinal George Apologizes for Comparing Gays to KKK
Filed by John M. Becker | January 08, 2012 6:15 PM |Even in what was ostensibly an apology, George made a point to reinforce the false dichotomy between LGBT equality and religious freedom being pushed by the anti-gay lobby, as though advances in the former come at the expense of the latter.Read More
Psychopaths in Suits
Filed by Terrance Heath | January 07, 2012 6:00 PM |Back in 2009, I asked "What's Wrong With Wall Street?", and I even offered my own diagnosis as an armchair shrink. I'm no doctor, but this article from the San Francisco Chronicle seems to confirm my earlier diagnosis.Read More
Remembering Muppet Performer Richard Hunt
Filed by Jessica Max Stein | January 07, 2012 2:00 PM |Today we observe the 20th anniversary of the death of talented Muppet performer Richard Hunt. Let us celebrate him by enjoying some of his work. Read More
Justice Dept Updates Rape Definition
Filed by Bil Browning | January 06, 2012 4:00 PM |The federal government is expanding its definition of "rape" to include more than just "the carnal knowledge of a female, forcibly and against her will." The new definition is much more inclusive than the narrow one implemented in 1927.Read More
Just Like On TV...
Filed by Terrance Heath | January 06, 2012 3:00 PM |Looks like somebody took those Volkswagon "test-drive" commercials a little too seriously.Read More
Researcher Complains Anti-Gay Group Distorts Study
Filed by Bil Browning | January 06, 2012 12:30 PM |Sirota studied the effect of gay dads raising girls while in heterosexual marriages. NARTH, however, published an article using Sirota's research to claim that children of same-sex parents don't fare as well as children raised "in stable homes with a mother and a father."Read More
Disney & Kotex: The Story of Menstruation
Filed by Bil Browning | January 06, 2012 10:30 AM |Did you know that Disney and Kotex made an animated cartoon to teach girls about menstruation? It's the kind of flick that they showed us in health class when it was time for sex ed. Read More
Another Reason to Watch Randy Phillips Videos
Filed by Bil Browning | January 05, 2012 5:00 PM |Remember the solider who came out to his father on the phone from Afghanistan the day Don't Ask Don't Tell was repealed? Now Randy Phillips has given me a reason to watch his videos over and over and over again.Read More
Hartford Archdiocese Offers Abstinence Group For Gays
Filed by D Gregory Smith | January 05, 2012 12:00 PM |The Hartford, Connecticut Catholic Archdiocese has announced that they're launching a chapter of Courage, a "ministry" dedicated to encouraging gays and lesbians to "live chaste and fruitful lives" by practicing abstinence for a year.Read More
Even Santorum Didn't Imagine This! [Caption This]
Filed by Bil Browning | January 05, 2012 11:00 AM |Sweet begonia! It looks like those rightwing nutjobs were right along. I'm guessing even Rick "Man on Dog" Santorum never imagined a wild swinging scene like this.Read More
Loved One
Filed by Dr. Jillian T. Weiss | January 05, 2012 10:00 AM |I have been off the air the past few weeks, busy with what we in this degenerate age languidly call "caring for your loved ones."Read More
Kids & Keys in the Car?
Filed by Terrance Heath | January 04, 2012 4:00 PM |First there was the kid in Virgina, missing and then found after being abducted following a double murder, when the SUV he was sleeping in was stolen. Now this.Read More
Shirtless Obama in Hawaii [Caption This]
Filed by Bil Browning | January 04, 2012 3:00 PM |Where would be without TMZ's paparazzi shots? Obama's looking darn good these days, isn't he?Read More
3 Tips for Taking Advantage of the Problems in Your Relationship
Filed by Jeff Lutes | January 04, 2012 1:00 PM |Conflict can actually be an opportunity for increased intimacy. Learning effective strategies for coping with conflict can help you feel more relaxed and safe, and serve as a tool for learning more about yourself and your partner.Read More
Your Debt Is Not a Moral Failure
Filed by Yasmin Nair | January 04, 2012 10:00 AM |Among the arguments that gay marriage proponents make is that they will gain tax benefits. Conveniently forgotten in all this is that spouses also acquire their partners' debts.Read More
How to Save Marriage: Religious Sex Toys
Filed by Michael Hamar | January 03, 2012 11:00 AM |What makes a vibrator holy? Let's look at the growing market for sex toys via online "religious" sex-toy shops. Apparently, the theory behind the products is that good sex will strengthen the marriages of the self-congratulatory pious set.Read More
Bilerico: A Cost/Benefit Analysis
Filed by Bil Browning | January 02, 2012 11:30 AM |As you head into the New Year, take a moment and realize how much content you consume online for free. Bloggers are usually doing it for love or small advertising amounts and, as we've seen with all the recent contractions and closings, the job of "LGBT blogger" isn't exactly well paying.Read More
What's Your New Year's Resolution [Open Thread]
Filed by Bil Browning | January 01, 2012 11:00 AM |So what's your New Year's resolution this time around? I have three.Read More
