Living: August 2012

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Body Grooming: Two Out of Three Gay Men Agree

Filed by Ed Team | August 31, 2012 | 4:30 PM | comments

James and Bil were both sent Norelco Bodygroom systems to try out. After a rigorous Bilerico Project study, we can announce that two out of three gay men agree.Read More


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Charlotte Is the Place to Be for Democratic Convention [Counterpoint]

Filed by Matt Comer | August 31, 2012 | 1:30 PM | comments

On Wednesday, Bil penned a short commentary explaining why he's not excited about going to the Democratic National Convention in Charlotte next week. It was well-reasoned, but, of course, I couldn't let it go by without a challenge.Read More


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Requiem for Joh: El Guano Loco Forever

Filed by Bil Browning | August 31, 2012 | 11:00 AM | comments

Joh was one of the first "real" Bilerico readers back when it was just me typing out random thoughts on the internet. He loved to bring people together - as he did with our small group of wordsmiths and activists. Read More


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Church Edition [What You Need to Know]

Filed by Rodrigo Ugarte | August 31, 2012 | 10:00 AM | comments

Churches don't belong in government matters, regardless of a citizen's devotion. Religion is a personal matter that should remain out of others' lives. Washington state reminded its churches that plus other news you need to know!Read More


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The Big Risk & Hope of the 2012 Election: Regardless of Who Wins

Filed by Guest Blogger | August 30, 2012 | 1:30 PM | comments

What if Americans, in these fractious electoral times, could decide that we love what unites us more than we hate what divides us?Read More


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Fighting Back: Motives of Gay Couple Suing United Airlines for Dildo Debacle

Filed by Michael Hamar | August 30, 2012 | 12:00 PM | comments

When I wrote my post about Continental Airlines taping a dildo to the outside of a gay couple's luggage on Monday, I seriously never dreamed that the story would go viral and that I'd be contacted from everyone from local media outlets to The Daily Mail.Read More


True Love Edition [What You Need to Know]

Filed by Joseph Gentile | August 30, 2012 | 10:00 AM | comments

I believe the central, underlying theme of the sci-fi thriller Cloverfield to be love, true love, kills. Fortunately, nobody else died needlessly after one Chinese suitor nearly did himself in. Signed, sealed, delivered - it's what you need to know! Read More


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Treason Edition [What You Need to Know]

Filed by Rodrigo Ugarte | August 29, 2012 | 10:00 AM | comments

A group of soldiers plot to commit treason and it's barely covered. And, when it is mentioned, treason is overlooked. Why are we not paying closer attention to this issue? This and more news you need to know! Read More


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Hurricane Christ Edition [What You Need to Know]

Filed by Joseph Gentile | August 28, 2012 | 10:00 AM | comments

By cajoling her congregants into prayin' "around the clock," Rev. Jesten Peters and her Keys of Authority Ministries kept Hurricane Isaac away from the Republican National Convention ... and headed for New Orleans. Come hell or high water, it's what you need to know!Read More


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No, Gay Marriage Isn't Legal in California Again

Filed by Bil Browning | August 27, 2012 | 5:00 PM | comments

There was some excitement in the blogosphere today after Buzzfeed's Chris Geidner reported that a trial judge in California ordered the Prop 8 case closed. Don't get too excited and rush out to buy rings and reserve a florist.Read More


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Watch: SF 49ers Say 'It Gets Better'

Filed by Karen Ocamb | August 27, 2012 | 4:00 PM | comments

On the eve of their winning pre-football season game with the Denver Broncos, the SF 49ers released an "It Gets Better" video - the first NFL team to feature multiple players, all of whom are people of color. Read More


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The Ring of Resilience

Filed by Jeff Lutes | August 27, 2012 | 1:00 PM | comments

Yesterday my 8-year old daughter asked me why Chick-fil-A dislikes "Gay and Leslie" people. She gently touched the tattered ring on my finger and said "But I love you and Daddy... and Chick-fil-A is stupid."Read More


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Gay Couple Sues United Airlines for Intentional Harassment

Filed by Michael Hamar | August 27, 2012 | 11:00 AM | comments

The leadership of United/Continental Airlines basically "flipped" the bird to innocent victims and victimized them yet again - even though they claim to be LGBT friendly. As the saying goes, actions speak louder than words.Read More


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Gay TV Edition [What You Need to Know]

Filed by Rodrigo Ugarte | August 27, 2012 | 10:00 AM | comments

How is keeping people from learning about a different group of people through a television show against one's values? Perhaps someone should be rethinking their values and the real threats to the family, plus more news you need to know!Read More


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R.I.P. Neil Armstrong

Filed by Guest Blogger | August 26, 2012 | 5:30 PM | comments

Armstrong was America at its very best. An America that bent itself and its resources on a noble goal. Part of what hurts about Armstrong's passing is that there do not seem to be astronauts waiting in the wings.Read More


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Just 'Like' That

Filed by Joseph Gentile | August 26, 2012 | 4:00 PM | comments

Short of carpet-bombing your Facebook timeline, the damage to one's image isn't so easily undone after an online split. Even so, that hasn't stopped us from pairing off with each other as social media further smudges the line separating privacy from publicity. Read More


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How a Celebrity Is Created

Filed by Bil Browning | August 26, 2012 | 2:30 PM | comments

Celebrity is entirely subjective, I've learned. It waxes and wanes and, for the most part, it has no basis in reality.Read More


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Days of Shirley Jackson

Filed by Paige Schilt | August 26, 2012 | 11:30 AM | comments

I remember the day I became obsessed with Shirley Jackson. It was summer, I had a deadline, and I was supposed to be watching my six-year-old son and his friend.Read More


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Raging Granny Edition [What You Need to Know]

Filed by Joseph Gentile | August 26, 2012 | 10:00 AM | comments

Oh me, oh my. Those hats! The kazoos! Meet the "Raging Grannies." They're a gaggle of good ol' gals with a song in their hearts for Republican U.S. Senate candidate Todd "Legitimate Rape" Akin. Zippity-Do-Dah! It's what you need to know!Read More


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Cucumber, Tomato, & Arugula Salad with Roasted Eggplant [VAAB]

Filed by James Holmes | August 24, 2012 | 2:00 PM | comments

I have a confession - I'm not a huge fan of salads. That's right. I am vegan, and I don't like salads. It does happen. However, I am rather pleased with this one that I threw together on Tuesday. Read More


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'Naughty' Sex Edition [What You Need to Know]

Filed by Rodrigo Ugarte | August 24, 2012 | 10:00 AM | comments

Straight people have more 'inappropriate' sex than gay people, so why is it that we are condemned for having sex? And, how those American society's feelings about sex damage society? This and more news you need to know! Read More


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When the Rape Debate Hits Home

Filed by Mark Segal | August 23, 2012 | 5:30 PM | comments

My friend Jan was raped. The trauma was so great that she ended up taking her own life. This week I've watched the "debate" about rape unfold in the news thanks to a mindless, ignorant, ideological congressman from Missouri.Read More


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Nebraska Police: Lesbian 'Hate Crime' Attack Was Staged

Filed by Karen Ocamb | August 23, 2012 | 4:30 PM | comments

Last July I wrote about an incident in Nebraska in which a lesbian told police that three men broke into her house, bound her wrists, and carved the word "dyke" into her skin. Now police say the incident was apparently staged. Read More


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Red Ribbons & Mosquitos

Filed by D Gregory Smith | August 23, 2012 | 3:00 PM | comments

West Nile will probably not become the epidemic that AIDS did. Because mosquitoes don't discriminate. They bite everyone.Read More


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Sweetmeats Edition [What You Need to Know]

Filed by Joseph Gentile | August 23, 2012 | 10:00 AM | comments

Farmer Joseph Watson of Mayfield, Ky. couldn't afford the crippling price of corn. But, the Southern farmer had a sweet idea. Why not treat his 1,400 corn-fed cattle to candy? Surely enough, they ate it up. Hungry? Here's what you need to know!Read More


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Dan Savage's Debate with Brian Brown: Video

Filed by Bil Browning | August 22, 2012 | 4:30 PM | comments

The video of Dan Savage debating NOM's Brian Brown has hit the web and you know you want to watch it. Who won?Read More


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Harry vs William: Crown Jewels on Display

Filed by Bil Browning | August 22, 2012 | 12:30 PM | comments

Pictures hit the web last night of Prince Harry partying naked in Vegas and they're well worth the ogle. But does it compare with the photos we published in 2008 of Prince William where you can see his royal dangly bits?Read More


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Perfect Body Edition [What You Need to Know]

Filed by Rodrigo Ugarte | August 22, 2012 | 10:00 AM | comments

We know gay culture pushes certain body ideals onto gay men but how does one address the issue? Read one approach and its critique and let me know your opinion plus more news you need to know!Read More


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Prof. Robert Oscar Lopez Explains Support for Regnerus Study

Filed by Karen Ocamb | August 21, 2012 | 1:30 PM | comments

On Aug. 14, I posted a piece entitled "Cal State Professor Supports Controversial Gay Parents 'Study'." Here is Prof. Robert Oscar Lopez's response. Read More


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Drunk Monkey Edition [What You Need to Know]

Filed by Joseph Gentile | August 21, 2012 | 10:00 AM | comments

If you're looking for a swinging party, stop by the Georgia Health Sciences University labs, and meet a couple of real "party animals." Hold the banana-flavored vodka! It's what you need to know! Read More


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Phyllis Diller Dies at 95

Filed by Bil Browning | August 20, 2012 | 6:00 PM | comments

Phyllis Diller has died at home at age 95. She's the first female comedian I can remember - and I loved her.Read More


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The Bread Heel Parable

Filed by Bil Browning | August 20, 2012 | 11:00 AM | comments

An old man and old woman have been married for forty years.They love each other in every way. The years have been kind to them and between them there is only one hidden resentment. Read More


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Immigration Edition [What You Need to Know]

Filed by Rodrigo Ugarte | August 20, 2012 | 10:00 AM | comments

Can immigration save the US economy or will the issue never be brought up because both parties fear working together? This and other exciting news you need to know!Read More


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Jambalaya with Summer Squash & Okra [VAAB]

Filed by James Holmes | August 19, 2012 | 1:10 PM | comments

In my CSA shares over the last few weeks I've been receiving lots of okra - which I love. So when I received peppers last week and had a back log of squash, it was time for Jambalaya. Read More


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Supermarket Sweep Edition [What You Need to Know]

Filed by Joseph Gentile | August 19, 2012 | 10:00 AM | comments

Mayor Juan Manuel Sanchez Gordillo of Marinaleda recently rallied union members to raid the supermarkets of neighboring towns for the hungriest residents of Spain's Andalusian region. Get out your coupons! It's what you need to know! Read More


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When Dogs Have Wings

Filed by Bil Browning | August 17, 2012 | 4:30 PM | comments

How do you make a dog fly? Give a poor starving mutt a warm bed, some loving arms to hold her, and a little bit of food and her heart will soar with nary a thud to mark it's previous crashes.Read More


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The 4.5 Million Dollar Apology

Filed by Bil Browning | August 17, 2012 | 11:30 AM | comments

Former Michigan assistant attorney general Andrew Shirvell found out the hard way exactly how much an apology is worth - $4.5 million. Read More


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The Arts Edition [What You Need to Know]

Filed by Rodrigo Ugarte | August 17, 2012 | 10:00 AM | comments

The arts and humanities are the bloodlines of culture but some in this country seek to cut them off while others abroad respect them. Find out how plus many more news you need to know! Read More


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Walter Wasn't There Anymore

Filed by Bil Browning | August 16, 2012 | 5:30 PM | comments

My parents got divorced when I was young; Dad walked out on Mom on my tenth birthday. Walter was an older man who lived across the country lane on land that used to be a soybean field. Shortly after the divorce was final, she married him.Read More


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Pee Wee Edition [What You Need to Know]

Filed by Joseph Gentile | August 16, 2012 | 10:00 AM | comments

Organizers for the Pee Wee Football Association of Mesquite, Texas are reluctant to let a 6-foot-1, and nearly 300-pound, twelve-year-old into their huddle. So, after three weeks of getting Elijah Earnheart's hopes up, they cut him. Put me in Coach! It's what you need to know!Read More


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Coming Out on the Inside

Filed by Guest Blogger | August 15, 2012 | 4:00 PM | comments

"Do you know what a size queen is?" You might imagine this exchange taking place at a gay bar, a party, or even an awkward Thanksgiving dinner. Instead I overheard this in the most unlikely of places: a jail.Read More


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I Was an Easton Mountain Virgin

Filed by Father Tony | August 15, 2012 | 3:00 PM | comments

Easton Mountain is a magical place in the woods where gay men (and sometimes women) reconnect with their bodies, minds and spirit.Read More


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After Aurora: The Shooting I Remember [Part 4]

Filed by Terrance Heath | August 15, 2012 | 1:00 PM | comments

I don't want to write about the Wisconsin shooting, the Aurora shooting, or any other shooting right now. I want to write about the one I was present for - the moment I looked down the barrel of a gun. Read More


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Multi-Lingual Edition [What You Need to Know]

Filed by Rodrigo Ugarte | August 15, 2012 | 10:00 AM | comments

Speaking different languages can help us better understand other cultures, but is it worth it to study in college? Or, should our education's foreign language education get a facelift? This and other news you need to know!Read More


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Chick-fil-A Conspiracy Theories [Open Thread]

Filed by Bil Browning | August 14, 2012 | 5:00 PM | comments

I'll admit. I laughed long and hard over this story. Chick-fil-A versus Adam Lambert now, eh? What's left for everyone's favorite anti-gay boogeyman now? What other nefarious deeds has the chicken shack committed?Read More


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RaiseAChild Seeks Info to Help LGBT Kids in Foster Care

Filed by Karen Ocamb | August 14, 2012 | 4:00 PM | comments

Rich Valenza, Founder and President of RaiseAChild.US, says they are now working with the Southern California Foster Family and Adoption Agency to find workable solutions to some of the issues facing LGBT self-identified youth in the foster care system.Read More


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Cal State Professor Supports Controversial Gay Parents 'Study'

Filed by Karen Ocamb | August 14, 2012 | 12:00 PM | comments

Perhaps you know Cal State Northridge bisexual professor Robert Oscar Lopez - and hence might understand why he wants to cozy up to the antigay National Organization for Marriage. Read More


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War Paint Edition [What You Need to Know]

Filed by Joseph Gentile | August 14, 2012 | 10:00 AM | comments

Nine Nobel Peace Prize Laureates recently assaulted NBC's addition of "Stars Earn Stripes," a commando-inspired, celebreality TV competition, for glorifying war as a spectator's sport. Brace yourself! It's what you need to know!Read More


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Watch: Women Who GLSEN Against Bullying

Filed by Karen Ocamb | August 13, 2012 | 4:00 PM | comments

On Sunday, Aug. 5, filmmakers Renee Sotile and Mary Jo Godges covered a fundraiser in Malibu where stars and politicos talked about bullying, bisexuality and President Obama.Read More


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Did Anderson Cooper's Boyfriend Cheat?

Filed by James Holmes | August 13, 2012 | 2:30 PM | comments

A UK tabloid stalked down Anderson Cooper's boyfriend and snapped a picture of him kissing another man. The public has responded in one of two ways - "How dare anyone cheat on Anderson?" or "Gay man = open relationship." Read More


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Secession Edition [What You Need to Know]

Filed by Rodrigo Ugarte | August 13, 2012 | 10:00 AM | comments

Would the South's secession improve this country? Maybe and maybe not. Til that day, boys and girls from North and South here are some more news you need to know!Read More


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Telling the Whole Story [Comment of the Week]

Filed by Bil Browning | August 12, 2012 | 6:30 PM | comments

A commenter stopped by my post, "Best Chick-fil-A Infographic Yet," that highlighted the states where it would be legal for the homophobic chicken chain to fire gay or lesbian employees for their sexual orientation. He points out one glaring omission: right to work states.Read More


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Readin', Writin' & Runnin' Into Trouble

Filed by Joseph Gentile | August 12, 2012 | 5:00 PM | comments

Mainstream media are hyping bullying by giving it the "Shark Week" treatment - but LGBT students are still at-risk. Virtual schools see the latent talent beneath their tears though. They're from the Internet, and they're here to help, or are they?Read More


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Black Pastors Bought by Anti-Gay Groups

Filed by Viktor Kerney | August 12, 2012 | 3:30 PM | comments

It's been very interesting to watch these so-called godly men interact with these type of organizations. It's also interesting to see how easily they can be bought and sold into a hate-filled game.Read More


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Is It Ever Okay to Call Someone a Pansy?

Filed by Kergan Edwards-Stout | August 12, 2012 | 2:00 PM | comments

Last night found my son's team on the field, in the middle of a drill, when one of the assistant coaches yelled, "What are you? A bunch of pansies?"Read More


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Why Gay History Should be Passed Down

Filed by Rodrigo Ugarte | August 12, 2012 | 12:30 PM | comments

How did you learn about gay history, literature, film, art? Did someone teach you or were you on your own? Maybe we should start handing down our histories and teaching the new generations why our lives are so comfortable now. Read More


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Baby Beluga Edition [What You Need to Know]

Filed by Joseph Gentile | August 12, 2012 | 10:00 AM | comments

Hold the bananaphone! Global troubadour Raffi Cavoukian, or simply Raffi to us Millennials, isn't about to let the Twitterverse besmirch the reputation of his beloved "Baby Beluga." Call me Ishmael. It's what you need to know!Read More


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Power, the Male Gaze, & the Catch-22 of Trans Gender Presentation

Filed by Drew Cordes | August 10, 2012 | 4:30 PM | comments

When a trans woman begins presenting as female, the sudden increase of those stares is palpable. It can signal anything from sexual attraction and not recognizing she's trans, to the person reading her as trans and wanting to hurt her. Read More


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Equal Under (Whatever)

Filed by E. Winter Tashlin | August 10, 2012 | 12:00 PM | comments

Proselytizing sometimes strikes me as the spiritual version of what the kink/BDSM community calls "involving bystanders in your scene," but I try to be sympathetic towards those who are called to or required by the dictates of their religion to do so. Read More


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Atheist Edition [What You Need to Know]

Filed by Rodrigo Ugarte | August 10, 2012 | 10:00 AM | comments

Christians aren't the ones being persecuted in the United States, atheists are. This and other important news you need to know!Read More


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Olympic Heroes 2012

Filed by Terrance Heath | August 09, 2012 | 4:30 PM | comments

The Guardian is asking readers, "Which Olympians have inspired you most so far?" I don't know the stories of most, but I have to go back to my post about Whitney Houston to choose from among the stories I do.Read More


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The Beauty of Sadism

Filed by Drew Cordes | August 09, 2012 | 12:00 PM | comments

When chatting with sex partners about likes and dislikes I'm often asked, "Do you like pain?" This is a vexing question. I think it's too simply put. Read More


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Dexamethazone: Sex 'Normalization' of Intersex Babies in Utero

Filed by Dr. Jillian T. Weiss | August 09, 2012 | 11:00 AM | comments

Pregnancy is a time when joy can turn to panic in the blink of an eye, and wanting a "normal, healthy baby" can leave families with difficult choices. Read More


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Weiner Edition [What You Need to Know]

Filed by Joseph Gentile | August 09, 2012 | 10:00 AM | comments

Executives at Trojan Vibrations felt cocksure that their latest, and largest, giveaway - pedaling 10,000 freebie vibrators - couldn't possibly flop, until it did. Stop that Pleasure Cart! It's what you need to know. Read More


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Compassion for the Boy Who Cried Wolf

Filed by D Gregory Smith | August 08, 2012 | 4:30 PM | comments

Bad judgment is a hallmark of humanity. But so is compassion.Read More


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A Chorus Line: Marvin Hamlisch Helped Shape My Childhood

Filed by E. Winter Tashlin | August 08, 2012 | 1:30 PM | comments

Mr. Hamlisch's music was a tapestry on which the lives of the characters were woven in the air of my room as I quite literally played the tape to death. Read More


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B-612 Edition [What You Need to Know]

Filed by Rodrigo Ugarte | August 08, 2012 | 10:00 AM | comments

I loved The Little Prince when I was younger but I took so much more from it as a grew older. Find out what children's literature can teach you, and other stories you need to know!Read More


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White House Social Sec Jeremy Bernard Pops Home Briefly [Photos]

Filed by Karen Ocamb | August 07, 2012 | 5:30 PM | comments

Everything that was said by anyone at the party Courage Campaign founder Rick Jacobs and his documentary filmmaker husband Shaun Kadiec threw for Jeremy as he returned home to LA for a few days this weekend was off the record!Read More


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The Day My Partner's Father Disowned Him

Filed by Viktor Kerney | August 07, 2012 | 2:30 PM | comments

My partner is fine now. He just wants people to see what hate can do to others.Read More


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Teaching Bigotry to Boys

Filed by Steven Cheslik-DeMeyer | August 07, 2012 | 11:00 AM | comments

I have great memories of my time in Boy Scouts. My family was not religious, and this was the first time I'd encountered such explicit rules for living an ethical, moral life. I took the oath we recited at each meeting seriously.Read More


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Celebration Edition [What You Need to Know]

Filed by Joseph Gentile | August 07, 2012 | 10:00 AM | comments

LGBT Ugandans learn to play the hand life dealt them to their advantage, and teach a true appreciation of gay pride. Now let's march on with what you need to know! Read More


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Help Needed: Film Producer JD Disalvatore Has Breast Cancer

Filed by Karen Ocamb | August 06, 2012 | 2:00 PM | comments

JD Disalvatore is a ubiquitous fixture in the Los Angeles LGBT activist and filmmaking communities, hard to miss with that shock of white hair and trademark tie. Now she's battling breast cancer - and she needs your help.Read More


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The Sexiest Internet Meme of the Week

Filed by Bil Browning | August 06, 2012 | 12:30 PM | comments

You can have your badass Hillary Clinton sending texts meme. I'm voting in favor of the "unnecessary chyron placement" meme that's currently sweeping Facebook.Read More


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Total Recall Edition [What You Need to Know]

Filed by Rodrigo Ugarte | August 06, 2012 | 10:00 AM | comments

How is America's relationship with history and politics similar to Total Recall? This and many more insights you need to know!Read More


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The Meat of the Issue

Filed by Mark Segal | August 05, 2012 | 2:30 PM | comments

There's a bigger danger at stake - one the media, our straight allies nor Chick-fil-A are discussing, and one that journalists and elected officials should have researched by now.Read More


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Wizard Edition [What You Need to Know]

Filed by Joseph Gentile | August 05, 2012 | 10:00 AM | comments

"Mummy porn" peddler E.L. James deals a killing curse, slaying the Harry Potter series. Oh My Rowling! It's what you need to know.Read More


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Homage to Gore Vidal

Filed by Jesse Monteagudo | August 03, 2012 | 4:00 PM | comments

In addition to his contributions to historical fiction and political commentary, Gore Vidal wrote some of the most important works of American literary works dealing with lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender people. Read More


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LA City Councilmember Bill Rosendahl Diagnosed with Cancer

Filed by Karen Ocamb | August 03, 2012 | 12:30 PM | comments

Wednesday afternoon, on Aug. 1, openly gay Los Angeles City Councilmember Bill Rosendahl revealed he has been diagnosed with cancer. Read More


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Homonymous Marriage Edition [What You Need to Know]

Filed by Rodrigo Ugarte | August 03, 2012 | 10:00 AM | comments

What is it like to have the same name as your partner and how do you decide what to do in that situation? This and many more stories you need to know!Read More


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Waffle Fries at the Fag Chicken Inn

Filed by Guest Blogger | August 02, 2012 | 2:30 PM | comments

Chick-fil-A Appreciation Day wasn't people standing up for the right to free speech - it was a mass endorsement of Cathy's views. The staggering numbers who showed up is a reminder that a lot of the country still despises us. Read More


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Watch: Bible-Thumping at Chick-fil-A in Hollywood

Filed by Karen Ocamb | August 02, 2012 | 1:30 PM | comments

Former Arkansas governor and Fox News host Mike Huckabee is clucking with glee over the perceived success of his 'Chick-fil-A Appreciation Day.' "It's gone beyond anything I could have imagined."Read More


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A Castaway Priest: Fr. Bernard Lynch

Filed by Father Tony | August 02, 2012 | 12:30 PM | comments

Found innocent of sex abuse but banished by a New York cardinal because he was out and proud, Fr. Bernard Lynch tells Bilerico's Father Tony Adams that he now faces new reprimands. Read More


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Disclosing Anti-Trans Dating 'Preference'

Filed by Tobi Hill-Meyer | August 02, 2012 | 11:00 AM | comments

A while ago I floated the idea of writing an advice column. I have so many projects going on that I ended up letting this one slide. But I recently got one letter that I simply had answer. Read More


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Southern Gentleman Edition [What You Need to Know]

Filed by Joseph Gentile | August 02, 2012 | 10:00 AM | comments

Brotherly love blanches when a Republican congressman and his gay brother rebel against each other online. Pour yourself a mint julip. It's what you need to know!Read More


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Out & Back: Top Two (Sort of Gay) Olympic & Sports Highlights

Filed by Patrick J Hamilton | August 01, 2012 | 12:30 PM | comments

One, a crack athlete going public with her orientation. The other, a crack athlete of another, racier sort.Read More


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'Sup Ain't Sexy

Filed by Bil Browning | August 01, 2012 | 11:00 AM | comments

Lookin'? Hawt. There's nothing like a hookup app to spawn fascinating conversations.Read More


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Fencing Injustice Edition [What You Need to Know]

Filed by Rodrigo Ugarte | August 01, 2012 | 10:00 AM | comments

Is there any justice left in sports? For a South Korean Olympic fencer there certainly wasn't any. This and other surprising tidbits you need to know!Read More